Life by Design

Reflections, Rituals, and Real-Life Identity Work

This is the most personal page in the resource library—a space where I share the behind-the-scenes, heart-led side of living life by design. From mindset shifts to identity maintenance, guiding principles to personal rituals, these are the moments that shape the woman behind the work. Read on if you're ready to live with more intention, more alignment… and a lot more magic.

The 2 Questions That Changed My Life Forever.
Lola VonRoda Lola VonRoda

The 2 Questions That Changed My Life Forever.

The questions that cracked everything open.
This moment in 2022 reshaped my work, my city, and my identity. I was asked two simple questions—and they changed everything. If you’ve ever felt the urge to move, this one’s for you.

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I Choose Me
Lola VonRoda Lola VonRoda

I Choose Me

What started as a Sharpie-on-the-wall party ritual turned into a defining mantra I live by to this day. This is the story of how I chose me became my mantra in life—and how I invited others to do the same.

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